Hello friends, today I would like to talk about issues that always struck almost everyone on this earth. 'Judging People'-Do you love to judge people? Did you enjoy doing that? Love to critic others? Usually, when a person is judging or criticizing someone else, they always end up by talking behind his/her back (Bahasa Melayu kata 'Mengumpat'). And this situation only cause intensity in one's relationship. Let me give you a situation :
A : Ish-ish, tengok anak dara Pak Mat tu, dah seksi sekarang. Tudung melayang entah ke mana dah..
B : Ye ker. Dah macam pelacur aku tengok. Ketat sana. Pendek sini. Haish, budak zaman sekarang. Orang macam ni lah yang penuhkan neraka jahanam besok. Buat ibadah berapa banyak pun Allah tak terima! (> Judging people)
A : Itulah aku tengok. Tengok gaya macam dah takde harapan dah. Mesti bawak jantan balik rumah tu. (> Judging again…)
If you love doing that, PLEASE STOP! By judging people, it won't give any advantages or benefits to you (Dapat dosa ada la..) As a human, we must realize that we do not own the place to judge other people just by looking at their appearances. Only Allah SWT can judge them & only Allah SWT can judge us.
Who knows, despite their negative appearance, they have some quality & goodness (inside) that even we don't have. (Manalah tahu kot-kot dieorang ni lebih ikhlas kepada Allah SWT dalam perkara baik yang dilakukan. Wallahualam~)
Never judge a book by its cover k. Unless you are in position of ANTM judges (or what-so-ever judges), feel free to critic! (the contestants only~)(^_^)~
>>> Kalau nak kritik jugak, kritik dengan berhemah & bijaksana (^__^)v